Porn and The Gospel

The Type of Man You Can Be

In this episode, we'll explore the three characteristics of a man who experiences the presence of God. We'll be diving into Psalms 15:1-2 for much needed encouragement because, as men of God, there should be nothing more we desire than to live with integrity before the Lord in our daily lives.

Wake Up Before It's Too Late

In this episode, Spencer shares a deeply personal story about the recent tragic death of his brother-in-law, Mark Meadows, a police officer and Army veteran.
Sutton reflects on the fleeting nature of life and the importance of cherishing relationships over material pursuits. He emphasizes the urgent need for men, especially in the church, to engage in spiritual warfare against the schemes of the devil, particularly in the battle against pornography and sexual sin.
Drawing from Ephesians 6, Spencer calls for a renewed commitment to God, urging listeners to arm themselves with faith, prayer, and the Word of God. He concludes with a powerful message on finding joy in salvation through Christ as the ultimate remedy for overcoming sin.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:52 Tragic Loss of a Loved One
03:15 Family and Community Support
06:58 Reflections on Life's Brevity
08:38 The Importance of Relationships
10:50 Spiritual Warfare and Armor of God
17:28 Call to Action and Encouragement
26:26 Finding Joy in Salvation
28:46 Conclusion and Farewell

This Is How Satan Deceives You

Satan's first trick to lure people into sin is to show them the bait while hiding the hook; to offer the golden cup but conceal the poison inside; to highlight the sweetness, pleasure, and benefits of giving in to sin, while hiding the inevitable suffering and misery that follow.
 
This is how he deceived the first humans. The serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. God knows that when you eat the fruit, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like gods, knowing good and evil” (Gen. 3:4-5).
 
“You'll have your eyes opened and become like gods!” That’s the bait—the pleasure, the sweetness, the gain. But what he hides is the hook—the shame, the anger of God, and the loss that will come for sure.
 
There are two ways our eyes can be opened: the mind can be opened to joy and contemplation, or the body to shame and confusion. Satan promises the first but delivers the second. He cheated Adam and Eve, offering them an apple in exchange for paradise, just like he continues to deceive countless people today. 
That's a paraphrase from Thomas Brooks

Does God Remember Your Frequent Failures

In this episode, we will reflect on the importance of identity and faith by examining the story of Moses in Exodus 2:11-15. We'll contrasts Moses's actions with the approach Jesus displayed in Matthew 9:36-38.
We must embrace their true identity in Christ, turn away from sinful temptations, and continuously look to God for strength and guidance. Join the community at themanofvalor.com to engage in deeper discussions and support.

Why God Allows You to Struggle with Porn

In this episode of Porn and the Gospel, we dive into the deep struggle many believers face with pornography and masturbation. Drawing from John 11, I discuss the importance of aligning our lives with God's perspective and purposes, even when it seems impossible. We explore the duality of the Christian life—both surrender and war—showing how true freedom comes from submitting to God’s will and waging spiritual battle against the flesh. Whether you’re in the midst of this battle or supporting someone who is, this episode offers encouragement and practical steps to refocus on the gospel and live in victory.

Sexual Sin...How to be Rescued

There's nothing more hopeless than being stuck in the patter of habitual sexual sin. The broken promises, the secrecy, the shame, and the struggling relationships. 
In this episode we walk through the struggle and look at what God's Word and I'll share three helpful suggestions for any brother struggling. 

8 Helpful Habits to a Transformed Life

We all have habits. These habits either help us or hurt us. They either move us toward a life pleasing to God or aid in drifting into a life of powerful and painful regrets.
In this episode, I'll share 8 helpful habits that anyone can start that will significantly impact your life over time.

How I Became Free (Part 3)

In the last episode from this series, I want to walk you through the actual process that a man of God can become free from porn. 
It's something that almost every follower of Jesus knows but rarely gives themselves to. I want to encourage you to take the next step in becoming the man of God he created you to be.
This will result in your freedom, joy, and, ultimately, God's glory.

How I Became Free (part 2)

The truth will set you free! 
This is a popular quote from Jesus in John 8...but what does Jesus set us free from?
In this episode, we explore the four things that Christ sets every man of God free from.

How I Became Free (part 1)

For every man of God, Jesus says, "If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32.
In this episode, I am going to walk you through how I became free from pornography. I hope that this will encourage you on your journey to freedom.